On-Demand AI Open Relationship Coaching
Practical support for jealousy, communication, boundaries, insecurity, and the challenges of non-monogamy with 24/7 AI coaching, expert-led workshops, and a 9,000+ member community.
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“When we started, we were in poly-crisis! Their extraordinary team got us working together again with improved communication. An absolute life-saver!”
-Ashley & Mike
- 100% Private & Secure
- Built by Open Relationship Experts
- Trusted by 9,000+ Members
- 100+ Hours of Workshops
- Web & mobile app access
You’re Trying to Do Open Relating “Right” Yet Can’t Help but Wonder…
- Why do I keep getting in “trouble” when I’m telling the truth & following our open relationship agreements?
- Why does it still feel like cheating when my partner is honest about seeing someone else? Why does it hurt so damn much?
- How do I get my partner to understand how scared & jealous I get when they’re with someone else without triggering them?
- How do we honor each other's independence without destroying our sense of safety and connectedness?
- How do we strike the right balance between our freedom & our responsibility to each other?
- In monogamy, there are rings & marriage certificates to make us feel safe... where do we find this security in non-monogamy?
- No one else gets me! How can I have a “conversation” with family members, friends, or co-workers without all the judgment?
- How do I find community, connection, and support as a polyamorous person?
- When do I bring this up to my kids? Or do I? How do kids deal with all of this?
If you’ve read the books, scrolled the forums, and done your research… but still feel like you’re guessing?
It’s not your fault.
Most of the relationship advice out there was built for monogamous couples, not people navigating open love, polyamory, or consensual non-monogamy.
You’re not broken.
You’ve been trying to build a very different kind of relationship with tools that were never designed for it. You deserve expert guidance and a supportive community created specifically for open relationships.
Introducing The Secure Poly Collective
Finally, a support system built exclusively for open relationships
Open relationships can be beautiful — but they can also be overwhelming, confusing, and emotionally loaded.
You shouldn’t have to navigate them alone.
Welcome to the Secure Poly Collective, the first and only platform built from the ground up for people practicing open love.
Inside, you’ll transform your relationship with yourself and your partners with:
- 9,000+ member open relationship community
- 100+ hours of workshops by non-monogamy specialists
- On-demand AI coach trained for open relationship support
- Desktop and Mobile App access
All powered by our Secure Poly Protocol™: the only trauma-informed, science-supported framework designed specifically for the challenges of consensual non-monogamy
How your open relationship will transform within a secure poly collective:
Heal Hidden Wounds
Learn what open relationship love style is best for you and your partner(s).
Communicate with Confidence
Navigate tough conversations around boundaries, agreements, & needs without conflict.
Feel Seen, Supported, & Safe:
Get guidance from open relationship experts & a supportive community that gets your lifestyle.
You don’t have to guess anymore. This is the support system already trusted by thousands.
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Here’s What You’ll Find Inside…
Get instant access to 100+ hours of practical workshops designed specifically for open relationships:
Each workshop is designed to solve the real challenges open couples face daily, including:
These specialized trainings were made by world-leading non-monogamy experts such as:
Jessica Fern
Psychotherapist, certified trauma specialist, & author of Polysecure and Polywise
Elisabeth Sheff
Expert coach, speaker, & world’s leading researcher on polyamorous families
KamalaDevi McClure
Renowned CNM educator, somatic specialist, as seen on Showtime® TV
…and dozens more specialized voices shaping the future of ethical non-monogamy.
New workshops and resources are added regularly so you always have access to the latest insights, tools, and science-backed breakthroughs for making your open relationships secure, connected, and successful.
On-Demand AI Open Relationship Coach For 24/7 Support
Get instant help anytime and anywhere you need it with our AI coach. It’s been trained on our Secure Poly Protocol™ as well as the combined wisdom of leading open-relationship experts including Jessica Fern, Elisabeth Sheff, and KamalaDevi McClure, who have over 10,000 hours supporting clients.
It’s like having a team of CNM specialists in your pocket, ready to help you through:
Your information is 100% private and secure.
Used only to help the AI adapt to & best support your unique challenges.
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BONUS: The Ultimate Open Relationship Toolkit ($497 VALUE)
The Open Relationship Type Guide
Learn what open relationship love style is best for you and your partner(s).
The Open Relationship Glossary
Learn all of the terms you need to know and what they all mean to communicate effectively.
Guide for Conflict Resolution & Relationship Mastery
Where you'll learn how to safely resolve conflicts and listen to understand each other better.
Communication Blueprint Training Video
Showing real-life examples using our revolutionary S.P.A.R.C. framework that has saved thousands of relationships on the brink of collapse.
Blind Spot Workshop
So you can confidently navigate open relationship blind spots to avoid mistakes before they happen.
The Conscious Open Relationship Agreement Guide
To help you and your partners craft your unique relationship agreements.
Ready to access the most cohesive open relationship support platform available?
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Once You Join The Secure Poly Collective, You’ll Be Able To:
Learn how your trauma and attachment issues affect open relationships.
Effectively regulate your nervous system and communicate confidently
Enjoy your open relationships with even more security, ease, and joy.
The Difference Is Clear:
Before Joining Secure Poly Collective:
- Trying to piece together information from books, Reddit threads, Google, & guesswork
- Feeling alone, misunderstood, or judged, even by well-meaning people in your life
- Getting triggered, anxious, or overwhelmed when uncertainty or jealousy arises
- Being unsure what 'healthy' looks like outside of a closed, monogamous relationship
- Over-communicating or under-communicating out of fear during difficult conversations
- Feeling confused and unsure if you’re doing it right and respecting yourself and your partners
- Struggling with a partnership that feels reactive, tender, or unpredictable
After Joining Secure Poly Collective:
- Learning through structured, expert-informed education designed specifically for open relationships
- Feeling connected to a supportive, values-aligned community that “gets it”
- Knowing you’re equipped with emotional regulation tools, communication scripts, and repair protocols
- Feeling fully confident, informed, and aligned with your definition of healthy open relating
- Communicating with clarity, healthy boundaries, and emotional safety
- Navigating every dynamic with intention, skill, shared understanding, and mutual respect
- Enjoying partnerships that feel conscious, connected, and co-created
Ready to dive in?
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About Leveled Up Love
We struggled through decades of monogamy. After the standard guilt, shame, and stagnation, we were sure that we had at least given open relating a try. But opening up our relationship had its own unique challenges, and we were far from prepared.
After 10 years, some hard-won lessons, and advice from top experts, we’ve been on a non-stop personal growth and healing trajectory.
But finding that support was far from simple. Most relationship education is built for monogamy only, and almost none of it includes the skills, frameworks, and tools required for healthy open-relationship dynamics.
So we set out to change that.
We’ve since partnered with many of the top experts who helped us (and many more) and started the Secure Poly Collective to give others in open relationships the support we wish we had when we went through it.
We are here to help you experience a safer and more secure non-traditional relationship, no matter where you are on your journey.
How Are We Different Than The Rest?
- Evidence-informed & expert-designed Built from the work of renowned relationship specialists.
- Tailored to open relationships We are solely focused on open relationships with no assumptions about structure, labels, or shame.
- Always accessible On-demand learning and a 24/7 AI coach mean you get support whenever you need it.
- Community-first mindset Supportive, inclusive, & judgment-free. Our strong 9,000+ peer community ensures you’re never alone.
- Privacy & autonomy respected No pressure or “you must do it this way”. Go and grow at your own pace.
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Hear What Some Of Our Members Have to Say...
Shai’s program was an absolute lifesaver! We were in poly panic when we met him. Shai and his extraordinary team jumped right in with their Secure Poly Protocol. They got us working together again with improved communication, & teamed us up with trauma healing experts. We couldn’t recommend Shai and Leveled Up Love enough!
Ashley & Mike
Thank you so much for the session! We got so much from it. I’ve a got a strong “Lizard Brain” (that’s what Greg and I affectionately call the Reptilian Brain) and it was so great to distinguish between that and my more conscious analytical brain. That alone was such a huge insight. Thank you, Shai. This is making a world of difference to our world!
Angela & Greg
The tools I’ve learned here have helped me show up in my relationships with more understanding and awareness of my partners needs. I’m so grateful for this community and all that it offers! I’m continuously impressed by just how well these containers have been designed to allow for immense depth, vulnerability and connectedness.
Heather
The depth of Shai’s understanding and sharing has helped me to transform into the loving & open King I’ve always dreamed of being. My life keeps getting better and better as I work with him! I then started working with one of their experts, Lea, and I now have a whole new respect for women, sex and deep emotional connection!
Colin
Leveled Up Love has provided so many people a sacred space to be vulnerable, receive support, and expand their minds on all things love and communication. What the community leaders have created is high-level, conscious, and full of wonderful information that people are so desperately in need of right now.
Erin D.
The Secure Poly Collective, by Leveled Up Love, is valuable for anyone looking to consciously explore relationships beyond monogamy. Building a love life that exists ‘outside the box’ can come with many challenges, but sharing and learning in a forum of like-minded hearts have been a healing experience of support and community for me.
Teagan A.
Is The Secure Poly Collective Right For You?
This is perfect for you if:
- You’re exploring or practicing open relationships, and want to do it without losing connection or sacrificing safety
- You and your partners are committed to each other, but jealousy, fear, or poor communication keeps derailing things
- You want clear frameworks, a supportive community, and expert guidance built specifically for non-monogamy
- You value education, growth, and conscious open relating, and want a dynamic that is stable, secure, and sustainable
Ready to join thousands of other non-traditional couples who’ve transformed their open relationships?
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Just imagine where you'll be after joining The Secure Poly Collective:
- Feeling calm and grounded when your partner goes on dates without you…
- Having respectful and drama-free conversations about boundaries and needs...
- Navigating jealousy with tools that actually work to ease your body and mind...
- Recovering from conflict quickly and compassionately without resentment...
- Enjoying more safety, intimacy, and emotional closeness with your partners...
Because when you learn from world-class experts and a community that truly gets you…
Open love becomes a source of stability, not stress.
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Monthly Membership
$97/month
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- Full access to all workshops
- Full access to AI coach
- Full access to 9,000+ member community
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Frequency Asked Questions
Here are some of the most common questions our clients have asked during the vetting process in deciding if our membership program is right for them.
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No, the Secure Poly Collective is an educational, open-relationship support and growth platform, not clinical therapy. We do have certified therapists on our team and can offer deeper 1:1 support. If you’re interested, please email us at hello@leveleduplove.com.
Not at all! Many members join while exploring possibilities or while transitioning from a closed to an open relationship.
Yes, and it is designed with your privacy in mind. Your data remains confidential at all times and is never used for advertising.
While our robust open relationship community of over 9,000 members is worth the investment alone (many members attest to this), the expert-led workshops give you structure and guided insights. The AI coach provides real-time, on-the-go support to complement the support of others. Together, they create an open relationship support system unlike any other.
Certainly! Membership is month-to-month for the monthly plan, and you can cancel at any time. For the yearly plan, you can cancel your subscription at any time, but you can still access the platform as long as your membership is active.
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