The Secure Poly VIP Memberships & Events

by Leveled Up Love

Discover The 5 Pillars To Go From Poly Panic to Poly Security (And Even Bliss!)

Pillar #1: Deepen Your Poly Community 

We all deserve friends and lovers who accept us and our open love style! Join our high vibe VIP community filled with compassionate open-minded members to relate with and even find new romance. In our VIP community, you’ll also be supported by brilliant open relationship experts like Jessica Fern & KamalaDevi McClure.

Pillar #2: Gain Crucial Knowledge

Picking up new communication tools and new mindsets is mission-critical! Included in your VIP membership are monthly 3-Hour Workshops with Jessica Fern, KamalaDevi McClure and other ENM experts. These will include presentations, Q&A, and Emotional Attunement Workshops (Live OR recorded for VIP members).

Pillar #3: Begin Trauma Healing 

Open relationships thrive when the partners involved have taken their healing process seriously. Ethical non-monogamy can inspire an amazing personal growth and healing journey. Included in your VIP membership are monthly TRE® classes (Tension, Stress and Trauma Releasing Exercises).

Pillar #4: Explore New Poly Dating Options

Dating in a mono world as a poly person can be quite a daunting task! Join our own Poly dating community on Feeld,  our new favorite open dating app. Also included in your VIP membership are monthly Poly Speed Dating Salons, so you can connect with other conscious Poly people from our own international community.

Pillar #5: Create Next Level Intimacy

Level up your intimacy skills with Tantra to create deeper connections with your partner/s. Included in your VIP Membership are monthly live Tantra demonstration classes. Learn how to honor the Yoni and Lingam as the sources of creation they are, and access the sacred healer within you!

VIP members also get deep discounts

on future events, such as the Secure Poly Experience, The Virtual Pleasure Garden and LIVE in person events.

May 2021 Schedule

90-Minute TRE® Class (Trauma Releasing Exercises) w/ Danielle Fishman

Saturday, May 22nd

5pm ET / 2pm PT

The Secure Poly Immersion, a 3 Hour Workshop with Jessica Fern and other ENM experts

Sunday, May 23nd

3pm ET / 12pm PT

90-Minute Tantra Demonstration Class w/ Maria Merloni

Saturday, May 29th

5pm ET / 2pm PT

The 2.5 Hour Conscious Poly Dating Salon w/ Alexandra Ballensweig

Thursday, May 27nd,

8:30pm ET / 2pm PT

Leveled Up Love VIP is Perfect for You if…

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You sometimes feel isolated because your family, friends and lovers can't relate to your polyamorous love style.

Imagine being a part of a thriving Poly community with over 6,000 high vibe, compassionate people and our smaller, more intimate VIP community. This smaller VIP community includes brilliant open relationship experts like Jessica Fern & KamalaDevi McClure.

You can finally get vulnerable, get polyamory support in a safe space, and maybe even discover a new romance.

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You’re having a hard time finding new poly people to date or finding it hard to make poly relationships last.

First, you’ll be invited to our new favorite open relationship connection platform.

Included in your membership are monthly speed dating salons, to make new connections and live Tantra demo classes, to deepen existing ones.

You’ll also access discounts to more intimate events like The Virtual Pleasure Garden and The Secure Poly Experience.

Get ready to gently push your open relationship boundaries and have some FUN!

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You’re managing more difficult open relationship conversations, instead of experiencing more love!

Are you trying to get your partner to see that your jealousy may be an expression of unhealed past trauma wounds? Or are you the one, on the other side, trying to convince your partner that all their insecurities are unnecessary, because you love them dearly? You just want to love more!

Included in your membership are monthly Trauma Release Exercise classes and powerful workshops, with expert polyamory coaches.

Hear What Our Members Are Saying…

Teagan A.

Teagan A.

“Leveled Up Love is valuable for anyone looking to consciously explore relationships beyond monogamy. Building a love life that exists ‘outside the box’ can come with many challenges, but sharing and learning in a forum of like-minded hearts has been a healing experience of support and community for me.”
David F.

David F.

“I had an amazing time attending the Virtual Pleasure Garden. I loved the feelings of togetherness and loving connection that you created, as well as the amazing performers who offered beautiful gifts of flow with so much heart, skill, and sensuality.”
Erin D.

Erin D.

“Leveled Up Love has provided so many people a sacred space to be vulnerable, receive support, and expand their minds on all things love and communication. What the community leaders have created is high-level, conscious, and full of wonderful information that people are so desperately in need of right now.”

Teagan A.

“Leveled Up Love is valuable for anyone looking to consciously explore relationships beyond monogamy. Building a love life that exists ‘outside the box’ can come with many challenges, but sharing and learning in a forum of like-minded hearts has been a healing experience of support and community for me.”

David F.

“I had an amazing time attending the Virtual Pleasure Garden. I loved the feelings of togetherness and loving connection that you created, as well as the amazing performers  who offered beautiful gifts of flow with so much heart, skill, and sensuality.”

Erin D.

“Leveled Up Love has provided so many people a sacred space to be vulnerable, receive support, and expand their minds on all things love and communication. What the community leaders have created is high-level, conscious, and full of wonderful information that people are so desperately in need of right now.”

Video Testimonial

Meet Daniela

VIP Membership Plans: 

Yes please! A VIP Membership makes total sense to me right now, because between joining an intimate high-vibe poly community, gaining critical Poly knowledge, beginning trauma healing, exploring new poly dating options, and creating next-level intimacy with Tantra... Sure! I totally see myself wanting to up-level in more than 1 of these 5 areas. Plus the offer below is simply irresistible! 

I'm Ready For My Risk-Free Membership With A 30 Day, No Questions Asked, Money-Back Guarantee:
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Join our high vibe VIP community filled with compassionate open-minded members to relate with and even find new romance. You’ll also be supported by brilliant open relationship experts like Jessica Fern & KamalaDevi McClure (Priceless!)

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A Monthly 3-Hour Deep Dive Expert Group Coaching Session with Jessica Fern, KamalaDevi McClure, Derek Hart, and/or other ENM experts. These Q&A and Emotional Attunement Workshops will be available live and recorded ($97 Value)

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A Monthly 90-Minute TRE® Class (Tension, Stress and Trauma Releasing Exercises). TRE® is a simple yet innovative series of exercises/stretches that assist the body in releasing deep muscular patterns of stress, tension, and trauma. ($27 Value)

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A Polyamory Dating Salon. Join a 2.5-hour Virtual ENM Speed Dating event to meet other conscious open relators ($47 Value)

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Monthly 90-Minute Tantra Demonstration & Instruction Classes: Create a deep, sacred connection with your current (or future) partners, honor the Yoni and Lingam as the sources of creation they are, and access the sacred healer within YOU! ($97 Value) 

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VIP members also get discounts to all Leveled Up Love events, such as the Secure Poly Experience, The Virtual Pleasure Garden, and future in-person events.

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24/7 VIP access to over 200 hours of curated content plus all the prior Secure Poly Weekend Sessions. Additional poly resources included in the Open Relationship Academy, on our Mighty Networks Channel ($27 Value)

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Access to world-class 1:1 open relationship coaches & guides (with discounted private session rates)

BONUS: The Ultimate Open Relationship Toolkit

Pre-recorded Polyamory Workshop
($97 VALUE)

Communication Blueprint Training Video & PDF
($127 VALUE)

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The Open Relationship Type Guide
($47 VALUE)

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The Open Relationship Agreement Guide
($47 VALUE)

        1st Month Value: $613

Now: $47 - $97

All monthly pricing options offer zero risk:
  • 30-Day Money Back Guarantee, no questions asked!
  • Upgrade or Downgrade Your Plan Anytime
  • Cancel Anytime

Simply Contact Us to request changes to your membership any time!

Students or
Seniors
Special Discount

VIP Membership 

 

$47 / month

 

Singles:
Solo
Polyamorist

VIP Membership

 

$67 / month

 

Couples
Throuples
or Quads

VIP Membership 

 

$97 / month

 

VIP Membership

Plus

Includes 1 Private Coaching Session
per month

 

$297 / month

 

Community
&
Academy

Membership

 

$27 / month

 

General Community & Academy Membership

We desire to keep leveling up our offerings to our community while also keeping educational content financially accessible to everyone.

This General Community & Academy Membership gives you access & supports both of our Facebook groups: Leveled Up Love (free) & The Open Relationship Academy ($27 per month donation).

You will have 24/7 access to 200+ hours of live and archived open relationship training, expert interviews, workshops, masterclasses, and other resources that will help you break through jealousy, attachment issues, time management, and other common open relationship roadblocks.

As a BONUS, you'll also access to The Ultimate Open Relationship Toolkit. ($318 initial value)

With your generous $27 monthly donation, we can level up our expert interviews, mini-classes, and other relevant content. We can also hire 24/7 admin & moderation support to keep the communities feeling safe and running smooth as we grow from 6,000 to 60,000 members worldwide!

Financial hardship packages are available!

 

Contact Us
to discuss details.

MONEY BACK GUARANTEE - No Questions Asked

With the membership options in Leveled Up Love, you can expect positive results in your open relationships within 30 days or you get your money back!

That’s right…if you did not realize a benefit from your membership to Leveled Up Love, within 30 days, we’ll refund your investment with no questions asked!. This makes your nominal investment completely risk free!

You may also cancel, upgrade, or downgrade your membership at any time with no questions or hassles. Simply contact us here.

Does Open Relating Just Feel Too Hard Sometimes?

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You or your partner spend way too much of your time and energy battling feelings of insecurity and jealousy
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You’re “newish” to opening up your relationship and it’s not going as well as you’d like
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You’re already super busy with life, so the idea of juggling multiple relationships just gives you a headache!
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The idea of “coming out” as polyamorous and telling your family and friends sounds overwhelming
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You can’t seem to find like-minded people to connect with who are also open!

Ready for a new way to experience fulfilling open relationships?

Why Choose Us?

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Experienced

We have a combined 11 years of experience practicing ethical and conscious non-monogamy.

We’ve learned through our own “poly school of hard knocks” and studied frameworks such as attachment theory, core human needs and love languages.

We also view challenging behaviors in polyamory through a trauma-informed lens, which alone was a game-changer.

Compassionate

We are NOT one of those online polyamory communities where some people tell other people to “own their sh** and stop being so possessive”.

We’re advocates for those who are struggling in polyamory and the beautiful partners who support them.

Affordable

You could waste thousands of dollars and hours of time on therapists and relationship coaches who don’t really get open relating. They often do not have the unique tools to help you work through your unique challenges.

You don’t have to DIY open relationships or drain yourself looking for polyamory counseling in all the wrong places. We’ve got you covered.

Enjoy more freedom, adventure, and love without imploding your existing relationships...

VIP Membership Plans: 

Yes please! A VIP Membership makes total sense to me right now, because between joining an intimate high-vibe poly community, gaining critical Poly knowledge, beginning trauma healing, exploring new poly dating options, and creating next-level intimacy with Tantra... Sure! I totally see myself wanting to up-level in more than 1 of these 5 areas. Plus the offer below is simply irresistible! 

I'm Ready For My Risk-Free Membership With A 30 Day, No Questions Asked, Money-Back Guarantee:
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Join our high vibe VIP community filled with compassionate open-minded members to relate with and even find new romance. You’ll also be supported by brilliant open relationship experts like Jessica Fern & KamalaDevi McClure (Priceless!)

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A Monthly 3-Hour Deep Dive Expert Group Coaching Session with Jessica Fern, KamalaDevi McClure, Derek Hart, and/or other ENM experts. These Q&A and Emotional Attunement Workshops will be available live and recorded ($97 Value)

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A Monthly 90-Minute TRE® Class (Tension, Stress and Trauma Releasing Exercises). TRE® is a simple yet innovative series of exercises/stretches that assist the body in releasing deep muscular patterns of stress, tension, and trauma. ($27 Value)

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A Polyamory Dating Salon. Join a 2.5-hour Virtual ENM Speed Dating event to meet other conscious open relators ($47 Value)

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Monthly 90-Minute Tantra Demonstration & Instruction Classes: Create a deep, sacred connection with your current (or future) partners, honor the Yoni and Lingam as the sources of creation they are, and access the sacred healer within YOU! ($97 Value) 

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VIP members also get discounts to all Leveled Up Love events, such as the Secure Poly Experience, The Virtual Pleasure Garden, and future in-person events.

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24/7 VIP access to over 200 hours of curated content plus all the prior Secure Poly Weekend Sessions. Additional poly resources included in the Open Relationship Academy, on our Mighty Networks Channel ($27 Value)

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Access to world-class 1:1 open relationship coaches & guides (with discounted private session rates)

BONUS: The Ultimate Open Relationship Toolkit

Pre-recorded Polyamory Workshop
($97 VALUE)

Communication Blueprint Training Video & PDF
($127 VALUE)

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The Open Relationship Type Guide
($47 VALUE)

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The Open Relationship Agreement Guide
($47 VALUE)

        1st Month Value: $613

Now: $47 - $97

All monthly pricing options offer zero risk:
  • 30-Day Money Back Guarantee, no questions asked!
  • Upgrade or Downgrade Your Plan Anytime
  • Cancel Anytime

Simply Contact Us to request changes to your membership any time!

Students or
Seniors
Special Discount

VIP Membership 

 

$47 / month

 

Singles:
Solo
Polyamorist

VIP Membership

 

$67 / month

 

Couples
Throuples
or Quads

VIP Membership 

 

$97 / month

 

VIP Membership

Plus

Includes 1 Private Coaching Session
per month

 

$297 / month

 

Community
&
Academy

Membership

 

$27 / month

 

General Community & Academy Membership

We desire to keep leveling up our offerings to our community while also keeping educational content financially accessible to everyone.

This General Community & Academy Membership gives you access & supports both of our Facebook groups: Leveled Up Love (free) & The Open Relationship Academy ($27 per month donation).

You will have 24/7 access to 200+ hours of live and archived open relationship training, expert interviews, workshops, masterclasses, and other resources that will help you break through jealousy, attachment issues, time management, and other common open relationship roadblocks.

As a BONUS, you'll also access to The Ultimate Open Relationship Toolkit. ($318 initial value)

With your generous $27 monthly donation, we can level up our expert interviews, mini-classes, and other relevant content. We can also hire 24/7 admin & moderation support to keep the communities feeling safe and running smooth as we grow from 6,000 to 60,000 members worldwide!

Financial hardship packages are available!

 

Contact Us
to discuss details.

MONEY BACK GUARANTEE - No Questions Asked

With the membership options in Leveled Up Love, you can expect positive results in your open relationships within 30 days or you get your money back!

That’s right…if you did not realize a benefit from your membership to Leveled Up Love, within 30 days, we’ll refund your investment with no questions asked!. This makes your nominal investment completely risk free!

You may also cancel, upgrade, or downgrade your membership at any time with no questions or hassles. Simply contact us here.

About Your Guides, Lea + Shai

Featured Speakers At:

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Lea’s Story

I wasn’t exactly designed or prepared for polyamory. But what I really desired from the beginning was freedom.

Something was telling me that this work would be worth it. I knew that I would experience many challenges, but that through the process I would uncover where my discomfort was coming from. That belief led me on a groundbreaking exploration of self-discovery.

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It really started many years ago when my former husband and I decided to have a child, and the arrival of our son spawned the greatest cataclysm of our relationship. We had been disconnecting for a while and this major life event amplified so many challenges.

My health also plummeted. And I remember thinking about tribal cultures where support, resources, care-giving responsibilities, and even lovers had been shared. The idea appealed to me so much. I thought, perhaps, a tribal community might be the solution to getting my needs met and mending my relationship. That’s when the first seed was planted for me.

I later joined a relationship-hacking mastermind focused on salvaging failing marriages, and through that, I learned a lot about communication. In this group, I met a couple who openly engaged with multiple partners. Another seed was planted.

I started to question if there was a more creative way to get our needs met.

Like many others, we had opted into monogamy without question. And I began to wonder what it would be like to make a conscious choice rather than simply defaulting to societal expectations.

But something in my instincts told me that my husband wasn’t the right person to broach that ground with. Neither of us had any of the navigational tools to make that work.

So we ended up using the new tools I gained from the mastermind to consciously uncouple and remain great friends to this day. When I met Shai soon after that, polyamory seemed to be a great way for me to enjoy both a committed relationship and to also be free. In theory…

Now, being a perfectionist, an only child, and someone who has been programmed for scarcity, I came into poly with three major ingredients that would have set most people up for failure. I struggled with jealousy while simultaneously wanting to explore on my own freedom. So I felt like a hypocrite. I wasn’t; I just didn’t understand how the mind and the body works. How the intellectual mind can live in one place, and the body-mind, (which is your entire lifetime of encoded emotions, traumas, and acquired patterns) lives somewhere different. It’s these sort of simple insights that have allowed me to flourish in my open relationships over time.

It’s been a long, arduous journey. There were moments where I certainly felt like I wasn’t right for this.

And there really isn’t a user manual out there for doing all of it. There are books that explain the intellectual side, but what I’ve learned is that there are many more powerful tools to help navigate a graceful experience in non-monogamy.

We’ve created this tribe to give you all of the support and resources we’ve uncovered through years of study and practice so that you can create your own thriving relationship by design.

The tool sets that I’ve come across are exceptional for zeroing in on exactly where many discomforts are rooted when practicing open relating. Some of the tool sets that have helped me navigate have been attachment theory, birth order, and the six core human needs.

I want you to have all the tools and information most people don’t have to make choices from a conscious and fully supported place, and that’s what you get inside Leveled Up Love Plus. 

Shai’s Story

Opening up my relationship was one of the best decisions I ever made.

The freedom of variety, attention, and adventure has opened up so many opportunities to grow exponentially in every way. I have grown intellectually, spiritually, emotionally, and even professionally because of this love style.

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Opening up my relationship was one of the best decisions I ever made.

The freedom of variety, attention, and adventure has opened up so many opportunities to grow exponentially in every way. I have grown intellectually, spiritually, emotionally, and even professionally because of this love style.

But my journey here was not as easy, peaceful, or as safe as it could have been. I simply didn’t have the tools that are available to you now inside Leveled Up Love Plus.

I was with my wife for 19 years. I felt that I was in a relationship that seemed to have everything anyone could want. We trusted and respected each other and had a lot of shared values.

Our romantic life was good, yet I still had this nagging feeling that something was missing. I wondered why I still had desires for other people. What was wrong with me? Was I a greedy person?

I felt so much guilt and shame for wanting to receive and give more love. But I was stagnating, and the stagnation was killing me, slowly.

Then, I gained a new perspective when I was exposed to the shows Big Love and Polyamory: Married and Dating. I ended up reading five books in a row including Mating in Captivity and Myth of Monogamy to discover more. Now, I’m not a reader. I had not read a book for years at that point, but I devoured those books. I clearly heard a calling.

I became convinced it was in our best interest to open up our marriage, but she had many reservations. So, we explored being “monogamish” for 3 years. We both thought this was the fix, at first. But it was just about physical variety, which wasn’t enough for me. I knew all along that what I was really seeking was relationships with emotional depth.

Eventually, my wife and I came to acknowledge that we all have the capacity to love more than one person at the same time. We moved into a new house. It was a sprawling, beautiful property that could hold eight people. I had dreams of a big love tribe built upon safety, support, and connection.

But in my gut, I knew I was taking a big risk with my marriage. And that’s when I realized I was okay with that. THIS was my purpose. This is who I AM.

So, we continued opening up our marriage even through difficulties, moments of jealousy, and breakdowns. We were not equipped. We thought all we had to do was start other relationships with a few simple rules of engagement and we’d be okay.

The books we had read hadn’t prepared us for the real challenges of polyamory. Ultimately, my wife decided she no longer desired this lifestyle… or even me. And it hurt. A lot. Although it was a conscious uncoupling, I still put my kids through the transition that I would have never wanted for them.

But after going on this tremendous journey of growth and discovery, I feel incredible. I’m living my truth and my needs are fully met. My kids adjusted well to a very slow and mindful transition. And now, especially in the last three years with Lea and Krissy, I found my love tribe and it’s growing.

Our love, connection, and sense of belonging has been growing and growing; it’s been on a non-stop growth trajectory. We’ve all had spiritual awakenings. We’ve all experienced intellectual, emotional, spiritual and even professional growth. And SO much healing.

Now I know it’s possible to have a really fulfilled life! And it’s something that I want for all the members of our community. I wanna share the tools and insights I’ve gained so you all can feel safe, seen, and loved while exploring your freedom to grow, heal, and contribute back to others!

Do You Need Deeper Polyamory Support Right Now?

You’ll get personalized 1:1 polyamory support from Lea, Shai and their all-star team of open relationship coaches.

Contact us for a complimentary 30-minute introductory call.

Watch Us in Action

 Poly Fight Done Right!
Watch us “make over” a common open relationship struggle (a broken boundary) using our own communications blueprint: 

Have Some Questions?

I’ve been doing this for a long time, and I’ve read all the polyamory books. Will a Leveled Up Love VIP Membership teach me anything I haven’t learned before?

First, it’s important to note that Leveled Up Love Membership is about more than just learning. It’s also about connecting, supporting, loving, and cherishing you as a member of our tribe. And yes, you’ll also learn A LOT. There is so much available for you here on open relating, communication, attachment styles, emotional intelligence, and more!

Can I pause my membership if I need to take a month off?

Yes. Simply let us know and we will happily pause, upgrade, downgrade your membership at any time.

I’m brand new to all of this and I haven’t decided which open relationship type is right for me. Is the Leveled Up Love Membership right for me?

Yes! The Leveled Up Love Membership can save you so much stress, heartache, and turmoil by helping you choose and even custom design a relationship type that works for you. You’ll be surrounded by support, mentors, and resources to help you begin and navigate your journey with ease and grace.

I’m a busy person with a lot on my plate, will the Leveled Up Love Membership work for me?

Yes! This isn’t about giving you a ton of books to read or endless training modules to consume. It’s a community where you can ask questions as things come up, get support, and learn more about navigating this lifestyle in an efficient and intimate way.

I haven’t told my friends or family about my open relationship type. Is the Leveled Up Love Membership discreet?
Absolutely! Others won’t be able to see that you belong to our private Facebook group and what you share inside the group is kept private that way. For extra privacy we also have a component that is off of Facebook.
Can I get my money back if I’m not satisfied?

Yes. You may cancel your Leveled Up Love membership at any time. We know you’ll love it, but rest easy knowing that if for some reason you don’t, simply ask for your money back, after the first 30 days, and we’ll refund it. No questions asked!