Explore Events With Our Expert Team
Author of PolySecure & Trauma Specialist
Elisabeth Sheff, PhD, CSE
Expert Relationship Educator
Author, A Polyamorous Queer, Kinky Love Story
America’s Relationship Rebuilder
Trinidad Ysidro Ruiz
Trauma-informed Psychedelic Integration Specialist, Coach & Holistic Healer
Relationship Coach & Trauma Educator
Non-monogamy Educator & Guide
Certified Human Potential and Erotic Blueprint Coach
Poly Counselor & Hypnotherapist
Erotic Embodiment Coach
Ananya Harvey, PhD
Shadow and Sexuality Coach
We Get Why You May Struggle With Polyamory...
…because we’ve been there, and done that. After years of navigating our own complex open relationships and listening to thousands of our community members and expert coaches, we discovered that most non-monogamists struggle in one or more of the following areas:
Lack of polyamory community support
Difficulties dating as poly people
Lack of proper support & education
Loss of connection with their partners, once they begin relating with new partners
Not enough trauma healing focus
Game Changing Events That Help You Win At Open Relationships
Our path led us on a mission to curate a unique set of transformative online poly events that address the most common challenges listed above. We now help 7000+ members create more conscious open relationships by:
Expanding their poly community, so they feel supported by people who really get them
Focusing on everyone’s trauma healing, so they can experience less jealousy in polyamory
Empowering them with powerful conflict resolution tools, so they can actually enjoy your open relationships
Curating new poly dating options and events to meet other open relators
Deepening their connections with all their partners, through Tantra
What to Expect In Our Workshops
“We recognize the need for safety, privacy and to protect one’s reputation.”
We allow joining our events on Zoom calls with alias names (if needed)
We do not record or share events such as the tantra demos, where some nudity is involved. This is for everyone's safety & privacy.
We do record the educational events and only share those within our smaller private VIP community.
We allow joining the events with no video share (if needed).
What Attendees Say
“I really enjoyed so many of The Secure Poly Collective events. From the virtual Poly Speed Dating experience where I felt safe enough to be my silly self, to the Secure Poly Immersion day-long event, with Jessica Fern and Derek Hart, where I was blown away listening to the way Derek worked with a couple in a poly crisis. I loved the perspectives he shared on how the couple was relating to each other in unproductive ways. It was so helpful and brought an awareness for that couple and I could see that magic happen in their “ahh hah” moment. I also just enjoy the chat space where everyone was respectful of each other’s poly questions, and being helpful and kind.”
“I had an amazing time attending the Virtual Pleasure Garden. I loved the feelings of togetherness and loving connection that you created, as well as the amazing performers who offered beautiful gifts of flow with so much heart, skill, and sensuality.”
“Leveled Up Love’s Secure Poly Collective has provided so many people a sacred space to be vulnerable, receive support, and expand their minds on all things love and communication. What the community leaders have created is high-level, conscious, and full of wonderful information that people are so desperately in need of right now.”
Join the Transformative Workshops
Just imagine for a moment.
Feeling supported by people who really get you.
Putting a focus on healing past trauma.
Exploring new poly dating options.
Deepening your connections through Tantra.
And actually enjoying your open relationships!