Polyamory Coaching and Poly Counseling
We want you to thrive in your open relationships. That’s why we’ve curated +20 world-class polyamory relationship coaches, trauma-informed experts, sex therapists, and intimacy experts to support you.
Work Directly with Poly Friendly Coaches to Level Up Your Open or Polyamorous Relationships.
Whether you are in a poly relationship, non-monogamous, open marriage (or thinking about opening up your marriage) or involved with someone who is, or “poly-curious” and wondering if non-monogamy might be right for you, we can help. We have worked with people struggling with every aspect and stage of opening up their relationships and marriages. No matter which part of the process you are in we are here to support you, coach you and teach you valuable tools that focus on healthy ways of connecting, communicating, and managing jealousy.
Raise your hand if any of these sound familiar.
- You get that sick feeling in the pit of your stomach the moment you imagine your partner in bed with someone else, and you’re consumed with jealousy and insecurity. You see the benefits of an open relationship, but your body is just not going along for the ride!
- Your partner struggles emotionally with open relating, and you desperately want to help them feel safe. You recognize that you can't just "talk" these emotions away and you don't know what else to do!
- You’re tired of conflict and endless arguments about dating new people, sexual safety, emotional safety, or rules and agreements, so you start avoiding them altogether!
- Maybe you've spent time and money with monogamous-trained relationship counselors who frankly don't get you. Sadly, some even insist you go back to monogamy. And not all "poly coaches" are not trauma-informed and their advice can often lead you in the wrong direction.
If you said YES to any of these... you’re NOT alone! We've been there, and heck, sometimes we still struggle! But we have had some HUGE breakthroughs, and we’re ready to help you go from jealousy and insecurity to THRIVING in Ethical Non-Monogamy!
Finding the Right Polyamory Therapist
Most therapists are more familiar with monogamous relationship issues and are not knowledgeable about specific polyamory relationship struggles. This makes it difficult for those seeking poly advice to find experienced poly therapists.
In our coaching program you will learn how to get out of your heads and into your hearts, move through conflicts faster and experience more joy in your open love lives.
A successful poly relationship full of love, laughter, and compersion is possible. Let us help you get there.
During your coaching sessions we will:
- Learn more about you and your specific relationship struggles and relationship dynamics.
- Discuss why you chose an open relationship in the first place and help you find the right course of action for you and your partner(s).
- Understand who’s emotionally ready (or not) for an open relationship so you can avoid unnecessary insecurities and heartaches when jealousy and resentment show up.
- Look beneath jealous thoughts and behaviors to address unmet needs and the history of relationship wounds.
- Share tools that you need to thrive in your open relationships.
- Help you find clarity about what you truly desire. Then I help you work through the feelings and insecurities surrounding your relationship.
- Discuss when is the right time to open or close a relationship, or something in between, so you're never taking things too fast, which is a common mistake
- Find the style of non-monogamy that suits most of your needs at this time, so you can enjoy your open relationship.
Getting 1:1 support from a polyamory coach or polyamory therapist is critical if you truly care about thriving, not just surviving in your open relationships.
About Leveled Up Love
We struggled through decades of monogamy. After the standard guilt, shame and stagnation, we came away certain that we had to give open relating at try. But polyamory has its own unique and specific challenges and we were far from prepared. Sadly, most are not prepared. Starting with just a few basic rules didn’t save us from strife, and heartaches.
But after 10 years, some hard-won lessons, and advice from top experts, we’ve been on a non-stop personal growth and healing trajectory. And, we want you along for the ride!
Hear What Some Of Our Clients Have to Say...
“Shai taught us tools to relate to each other in a heart-centered way – from a place of curiosity and love, not judgment.
Leveled Up Love gave us the roadmap on how to hold space for each other’s feelings without getting defensive, feeling like we have to cave in, or like the other person has to bend to our will.”
Ayla B.
Teagan A.
David F.
Erin D.
Open Relationships Are Hard.
But they don't have to be.
Having been in polyamorous relationships for over 10 years, I know the exact struggles you’re going through. I’ve personally been there. It hasn’t always been easy.
You can try doing this alone. But we’ve learned, the hard way, that trying to resolve open relationship struggles on your own is a huge mistake! Reading books or watching videos on polyamory is simply not enough when you’re dealing with complex matters of sharing love, trauma, attention, and intimacy with more than one person.
Having a polyamorous support system and coaches who understand the struggles of ethical non-monogamy can make all the difference.
We have poly coaches who specialize in communication, trauma healing, sex therapy, open marriages, sacred sexuality, consensual non-monogamy, plant medicines, poly family dynamics, dating, couples, and intimacy.
How Does Our Polyamory Coaching Program Work?
- You will first have a strategy call to assess which polyamory coach or coaches may be the best match for you, based on your particular circumstances.
- Sometimes one polyamory coach is all you need, and other times we’ve found that a combination of 2-3 coaches/therapists offer a more well rounded approach to get you on the right track
- The sessions can be one-off or come in packages. We’ve also built deeper immersions that last as long as 6-12 months with a curated team of coaches and modalities that are custom designed for you and your poly partner/s.
The Benefits of Working With Our Poly Affirming Coaches
Professional Poly Coaches
You will be work directly with relationship coaches who understand polyamory relationships and dynamics. This means you will get the poly help you need from people who understand exactly what you are going through.
Go from Poly Panic to Poly Security
Explore our workshops focused on healing old wounds, including TRE® (Trauma Releasing Exercises) and Tapping/EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique).
Get Access to Poly Support Resources
Expert curated tools and resources to help you and your partner(s) thrive in your open relationships, access to a poly support system, our close-knit poly community.
Free Access to Membership Program
With our coaching packages, you get FREE lifetime access to our Secure Poly Collective. This has over 150+ hours worth of poly related workshops and resources.
Leveled Up Loves Fields of Coaching
- Consensual Non-monogamy
- Opening Up Marriages
- Managing Jealousy
- Relationship Agreements
- Ethical Non-monogamy
- Unconventional Relationships
- Boundaries & Communication
- Trauma Healing
- Opening Up Relationships
- Solo Polyamory
- Self-worth Blocks
- Family Dynamics
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into your specific relationship struggles.