Polyamory Coaching and Poly Counseling

We want you to thrive in your open relationships. That’s why we’ve curated +20 world-class polyamory relationship coaches, trauma-informed experts, sex therapists, and intimacy experts to support you.


Work Directly with Poly Friendly Coaches to Level Up Your Open or Polyamorous Relationships.

Whether you are in a poly relationship, non-monogamous, open marriage (or thinking about opening up your marriage) or involved with someone who is, or “poly-curious” and wondering if non-monogamy might be right for you, we can help. We have worked with people struggling with every aspect and stage of opening up their relationships and marriages. No matter which part of the process you are in we are here to support you, coach you and teach you valuable tools that focus on healthy ways of connecting, communicating, and managing jealousy. 

Raise your hand if any of these sound familiar.


If you said YES to any of these... you’re NOT alone! We've been there, and heck, sometimes we still struggle! But we have had some HUGE breakthroughs, and we’re ready to help you go from jealousy and insecurity to THRIVING in Ethical Non-Monogamy!


Finding the Right Polyamory Therapist

Most therapists are more familiar with monogamous relationship issues and are not knowledgeable about specific polyamory relationship struggles. This makes it difficult for those seeking poly advice to find experienced poly therapists.

In our coaching program you will learn how to get out of your heads and into your hearts, move through conflicts faster and experience more joy in your open love lives. 

A successful poly relationship full of love, laughter, and compersion is possible. Let us help you get there. 

During your coaching sessions we will:

Getting 1:1 support from a polyamory coach or polyamory therapist is critical if you truly care about thriving, not just surviving in your open relationships.


About Leveled Up Love

We struggled through decades of monogamy. After the standard guilt, shame and stagnation, we came away certain that we had to give open relating at try. But polyamory has its own unique and specific challenges and we were far from prepared. Sadly, most are not prepared. Starting with just a few basic rules didn’t save us from strife, and heartaches.

But after 10 years, some hard-won lessons, and advice from top experts, we’ve been on a non-stop personal growth and healing trajectory. And, we want you along for the ride!


Hear What Some Of Our Clients Have to Say...​

“Shai taught us tools to relate to each other in a heart-centered way – from a place of curiosity and love, not judgment.

Leveled Up Love gave us the roadmap on how to hold space for each other’s feelings without getting defensive, feeling like we have to cave in, or like the other person has to bend to our will.”

“I really enjoyed so many of The Secure Poly Collective events. From the virtual Poly Speed Dating experience where I felt safe enough to be my silly self, to the Secure Poly Immersion day-long event, with Jessica Fern and Derek Hart, where I was blown away listening to the way Derek worked with a couple in a poly crisis. I loved the perspectives he shared on how the couple was relating to each other in unproductive ways. It was so helpful and brought an awareness for that couple and I could see that magic happen in their “ahh hah” moment. I also just enjoy the chat space where everyone was respectful of each other’s poly questions, and being helpful and kind.”
Ayla B.
“The Secure Poly Collective, by Leveled Up Love, is valuable for anyone looking to consciously explore relationships beyond monogamy. Building a love life that exists ‘outside the box’ can come with many challenges, but sharing and learning in a forum of like-minded hearts have been a healing experience of support and community for me.”
Teagan A.
“I had an amazing time attending the Virtual Pleasure Garden, by Leveled Up Love. I loved the feelings of togetherness and loving connection that was created, as well as the amazing performers who offered beautiful gifts of flow with so much heart, skill, and sensuality.”
David F.
“Leveled Up Love has provided so many people a sacred space to be vulnerable, receive support, and expand their minds on all things love and communication. What the community leaders have created is high-level, conscious, and full of wonderful information that people are so desperately in need of right now.”
Erin D.

Open Relationships Are Hard.

But they don't have to be.

Having been in polyamorous relationships for over 10 years, I know the exact struggles you’re going through. I’ve personally been there. It hasn’t always been easy.

You can try doing this alone. But we’ve learned, the hard way, that trying to resolve open relationship struggles on your own is a huge mistake! Reading books or watching videos on polyamory is simply not enough when you’re dealing with complex matters of sharing love, trauma, attention, and intimacy with more than one person.

Having a polyamorous support system and coaches who understand the struggles of ethical non-monogamy can make all the difference.


We have poly coaches who specialize in communication, trauma healing, sex therapy, open marriages, sacred sexuality, consensual non-monogamy, plant medicines, poly family dynamics, dating, couples, and intimacy.


How Does Our Polyamory Coaching Program Work?

The Benefits of Working With Our Poly Affirming Coaches


Professional Poly Coaches

You will be work directly with relationship coaches who understand polyamory relationships and dynamics.  This means you will get the poly help you need from people who understand exactly what you are going through.


Go from Poly Panic to Poly Security

Explore our workshops focused on healing old wounds, including TRE® (Trauma Releasing Exercises) and Tapping/EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique).


Get Access to Poly Support Resources​

Expert curated tools and resources to help you and your partner(s) thrive in your open relationships, access to a poly support system, our close-knit poly community.


Free Access to Membership Program

With our coaching packages, you get FREE lifetime access to our Secure Poly Collective. This has over 150+ hours worth of poly related workshops and resources.

Leveled Up Loves Fields of Coaching


Join The Secure Poly Collective

A risk-free 14-day trial of our expert-guided program for more secure and sustainable open relationships. Includes 100+ hours of workshops presented by Jessica Fern, Elisabeth Sheff, KamalaDevi McClure & dozens of other relationship experts.

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Book Your Free Intro Coaching Call

Book your free introductory call where we will dive deep into your specific relationship struggles.

Book Your Free Intro Coaching Call

Book your free introductory call where we will dive deep into your specific relationship struggles.

Book Your Free Intro Coaching Call

Book your free introductory call where we will dive deep
into your specific relationship struggles.