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Some Poly People Truly Don’t Feel Jealousy

The following content was written by DR. ELISABETH SHEFF, CNM relationship expert. Elisabeth is a trusted friend and contributor to the Leveled Up Love community. In the more than 20 years that I have been RESEARCHING POLYAMOROUS RELATIONSHIPS, I have encountered numerous people who have reported to me in interviews that they do not experience jealousy. Initially quite […]

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The Importance Of Attachment In Consensual Nonmonogamy

The following content is an excerpt from JESSICA FERN’S book – Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Non-monogamy. Jessica is a trusted friend and contributor to the Leveled Up Love community. To start, let me say that secure attachment with multiple romantic partners is possible. Honestly, it’s really a necessity to do CNM (consensual non-monogamy) well and thrive, but we’ll get to that. Just

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The CE Test: A Titillating Tool for When You Question if “You’re Actually Poly”

How the CE Test Can Help You Check Your “Poly Pulse” The simplest definition of being polyamorous is the ability to be attracted to, desiring, or loving more than one human at the same time. But practicing polyamory is a coin with two distinct sides: willingly sharing yourself (easier) and willingly sharing your partner(s) (not easier). I

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Advice For Jealousy In Polyamory: 5 Top Poly Experts Share What Works and What Doesn’t

Being that jealousy is often the first topic that comes up when one mentions polyamory and open relating, clearly, there’s a lot to explore there. We at Leveled Up Love asked five of our favorite top experts in consensual non-monogamy for their perspectives and advice on jealousy and insecurity in open relationships. This world-class team of

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Is It Really About Polyamorous Vs. Committed Relationships?

I AM polyamorous AND… ALSO in committed relationships. It’s not exactly your grandma’s brand of commitment but commitment nonetheless! Unlike Grandma, I’m no longer interested in living the unrealistic expectation of “forsaking ALL others till death do us part”. Emotional and sexual exclusivity for life may be the definition of commitment for others but it

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