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Polyamorous Relationships & 8 Powerful Strategies To Make Them Work Long Term

It’s easy to find articles about the different strategies to follow if you want to do well in polyamorous relationships and overcome issues like jealousy and possessiveness.  Many of the…

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Open Relationships vs. Polyamory: What’s the Difference?

When you first decide to make the brave leap from a lifetime of monogamous relationships to the world of consensual non-monogamy (also known as CNM), you get asked a lot…

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An Apology Letter to My Ego

Dear Ego - I've mistreated you, and now I'm going to make things right.

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Are You In Love with a “Potential Vision” of Your Partner?

How to know whether you truly accept who your partner is or holding them to your vision of their "potential"...

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Love Thyself: An Adventure in Self-Pleasure

A step in the path to becoming my own best lover.

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Overcoming Polyamory Distress through Healing Complex PTSD and Anxious Attachment

The journey I'm embarking upon to unpack my Complex PTSD as it relates to my continuing struggle with sharing in polyamory as an anxious attached partner.

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Is It Really About Polyamorous Vs. Committed Relationships?

I AM polyamorous AND… ALSO in committed relationships. It’s not exactly your grandma’s brand of commitment but commitment nonetheless! Unlike Grandma, I’m no longer interested in living the unrealistic expectation…

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A Letter to the Man Who Shares the Woman I Love

This essay is a companion to my love’s Letter To The Woman Whose Man I’m Sleeping With. Both letters were inspired by the exquisitely vulnerable essay “A Letter To The…

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My Particular Pussy: A Poetic Plea to End the Silent “No”

I have a secret to share Would you like to hear it? I have a very Particular Pussy. She is a unique little freak A choosy cha-cha A selective snake…

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