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About Leveled Up Love
We struggled through decades of monogamy. After the standard guilt, shame and stagnation, we came away certain that we had to give open relating at try. But polyamory has its own unique and specific challenges and we were far from prepared. Sadly, most are not prepared. Starting with just a few basic rules didn’t save us from strife, and heartaches.
But after 10 years, some hard-won lessons, and advice from top experts, we’ve been on a non-stop personal growth and healing trajectory. And, we want you along for the ride!

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Relationships Are Hard.
But they don't have to be.
Whether you’re new to polyamory or open relationships, it’s important to recognize that all relationships, regardless of their structure, can be tough at times.
But navigating multiple romantic connections or exploring non-monogamy can present unique challenges that require open communication, trust, and a willingness to adapt and grow.
Trust me, I‘ve personally been there. It hasn’t always been easy. But having a support system and coaches who understand the struggles of ethical non-monogamy can make all the difference. This is one of the main reasons we created Leveled Up Love. If you’re looking for coaching or support, book a free 30-minute introductory call with Shai today and see how we can support you in leveling up your relationship(s).

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Polyamory Education from Our Blog

A Letter to the Women Who Sleep With My Man
Dear sister, Thank you. Thank you for opening your heart and opening your body for my beloved. Thank you for being vulnerable with him. Thank you for sharing precious moments and organic bliss with him. Thank you for enriching his life. You can give him things I never can; for the simple reason that you are not me.

3 Things Kinksters and Polyamorists Value Highly
There is an overlap between kinksters and polyamous individuals. There are similarities among the people who participate in kinky sex and/or polyamory, including their personal attributes like race and education, as well as their shared social attributes that appear on both a personal and community level.

The Foundations Of Being Polysecure In Your Relationships
I have predominantly used the umbrella term nonmonogamy when talking about people with multiple partners, but as we saw in Chapter Four, people who are non monogamous can be quite varied in the ways they practice having multiple partners.