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Polyamory Jealousy Can Be Frustrating

It’s often frustrating to feel jealousy in consensual non-monogamy. But it does happen more often than many think. Past trauma comes up and that’s not easy to control. It can also be hard to find people to date, or friends to talk to who understand you. We learned from our own path and decided to help others.

What It's Like to Join The Secure Poly Collective?

Leveled Up Love is a friendly polyamorous community devoted to helping our members thrive in more conscious open relationships.

Our VIP program, called The Secure Poly Collective, is a series of transformative online workshops can that support you in balancing relational freedom and emotional responsibility to your partners. Our program offers a 14-day free trial of all our online events.

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The Benefits of Our Community

Gain Practical Skills From Poly Experts

Attend monthly online workshops facilitated by world class polyamory experts such as Jessica Fern, KamalaDevi McClure, Elisabeth Sheff, Ph.D., and more. Pick up critical mindsets and tools for ethical non-monogamy, and learn about alternative trauma healing modalities, such as plant medicine, tantra, BDSM and more.

Learn With and Lean on Our Community

Monogamous friends can give terrible poly dating and relationship advice. Join our discussion groups and find over 7,000+ high-vibe open relators, who are on the same journey as you. You can now lean on fellow members for support through the ups and downs of your journey.

Expand Your Poly Circle

Monthly educational, dating and play workshops help you meet new like-minded ethical non-monogamists.

Come Play With Us

Our Virtual Pleasure Garden, Tantra and other Kink events are discreet opportunities for connection, play and healing. Our interactive and titillating experiences are put on by professional performers and facilitators.

What Our Members Have To Say

Shai’s program was an absolute lifesaver! We were in poly panic when we met him. Shai and his extraordinary team jumped right in with their Secure Poly Protocol. They got us working together again with improved communication, & teamed us up with trauma healing experts. We couldn’t recommend Shai and Leveled Up Love enough!

Ashley & Mike

Thank you so much for the session! We got so much from it. I’ve a got a strong “Lizard Brain” (that’s what Greg and I affectionately call the Reptilian Brain) and it was so great to distinguish between that and my more conscious analytical brain. That alone was such a huge insight. Thank you, Shai. This is making a world of difference to our world!

Angela & Greg

The tools I’ve learned here have helped me show up in my relationships with more understanding and awareness of my partners needs. I’m so grateful for this community and all that it offers! I’m continuously impressed by just how well these containers have been designed to allow for immense depth, vulnerability and connectedness.

Heather

About Leveled Up Love

We struggled through decades of monogamy. After the standard guilt, shame and stagnation, we came away certain that we had to give open relating at try. But polyamory has its own unique and specific challenges and we were far from prepared. Sadly, most are not prepared. Starting with just a few basic rules didn’t save us from strife, and heartaches.

But after 10 years, some hard-won lessons, and advice from top experts, we’ve been on a non-stop personal growth and healing trajectory. And, we want you along for the ride!

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Relationships Are Hard.

But they don't have to be.

Whether you’re new to polyamory or open relationships, it’s important to recognize that all relationships, regardless of their structure, can be tough at times.

But navigating multiple romantic connections or exploring non-monogamy can present unique challenges that require open communication, trust, and a willingness to adapt and grow.

Trust me, I‘ve personally been there. It hasn’t always been easy. But having a support system and coaches who understand the struggles of ethical non-monogamy can make all the difference. This is one of the main reasons we created Leveled Up Love. If you’re looking for coaching or support, book a free 30-minute introductory call with Shai today and see how we can support you in leveling up your relationship(s).

We have coaches who specialize in communication, trauma healing, sex therapy, open marriages, sacred sexuality, consensual non-monogamy, plant medicines, poly family dynamics, dating, couples, and intimacy. We work with all relationship types and structures.

Polyamory Education from Our Blog

Conscious Relationships

A Letter to the Women Who Sleep With My Man

Dear sister, Thank you. Thank you for opening your heart and opening your body for my beloved. Thank you for being vulnerable with him. Thank you for sharing precious moments and organic bliss with him. Thank you for enriching his life. You can give him things I never can; for the simple reason that you are not me.

Conscious Relationships

3 Things Kinksters and Polyamorists Value Highly

There is an overlap between kinksters and polyamous individuals. There are similarities among the people who participate in kinky sex and/or polyamory, including their personal attributes like race and education, as well as their shared social attributes that appear on both a personal and community level.

Conscious Relationships

The Foundations Of Being Polysecure In Your Relationships

I have predominantly used the umbrella term nonmonogamy when talking about people with multiple partners, but as we saw in Chapter Four, people who are non monogamous can be quite varied in the ways they practice having multiple partners.